Whole societies can be taught to deaden feeling, to dissociate
from marginal and minority members, just as people can and
do erase the humanity of those close to them.
-Rebecca Solnit
First and foremost, we need to define the perpetration of GRANDPARENT ALIENATION as DOMESTIC ABUSE to remove any doubt that it is, in fact, a criminal act of domestic violence against children and elders.
Domestic abuse is a pattern of behavior which involves the application and perpetration of undue power & control, isolation, intimidation, threat, violence or other abuse by one person against another in a family relationship.
GRANDPARENT ALIENATION IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST ELDERS AND CHILDREN. IT IS THE PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE OF COERCIVE CONTROL AND SOCIAL ISOLATION OF CHILDREN FROM LOVING GRANDPARENTS.
The Insanity of Grandparent Alienation
Most people tend to generally believe that others are favorable, good, appropriate, conforming with socially-accepted standards of respectable or moral behavior. However, the truth is that unfortunately there are insane and evil persons among us who exhibit behavioral traits that are a toxic mix of indifference, coldness, lack of empathy, self-promotion, and intelligence. They are always seeking domination and conquering other people. They can seem friendly, smart, and content at first, but their true self eventually floats to the surface. This kind of person is more of a threat than first meets the eye and, sadly, it’s usually too late once you realize the depths of the darkness within them. By the time you reach the realization that their behavior is insanely evil, they usually have already wreaked great havoc and created much chaos in your life and the lives of those you love.
They deny reality even in the face of indisputable facts. To them, facts are just incohesive ideas that can be twisted and manipulated to the insane person’s benefit. In other words, they live in denial. Reality to them is not the same as it is to the rest of us and truth is completely arbitrary and against their inherent nature. Twisting facts is their greatest talent. They have lots of experience doing this. If something does not fit into their skewed version of things, they employ the manipulative trick of twisting the facts that are to the contrary of what they want to project into something negative in order to afflict and defeat those around them.
Lying and withholding information is another tactic to control a given situation. Lying is a way of undermining and damaging the integrity of others so the insane person can be able to mislead and thereby use the one they are lying to for their own benefit. The misleading of another by lying is the nefarious act of manipulating others about what is actually happening and making the situation worse for the victim of the lies. These people are classified by professionals as pathological liars. The more they lie, the more pleasure they feel. In fact, this sense of pleasure at another’s misfortune that they have caused is pathological in itself. They do not care how damaging their behavior is to you. They do not give any thought whatsoever to your distress. They are self-focused and interested only in obtaining whatever they are seeking.
Insanely evil persons always step on anyone preventing them from dominating others they have their sights set upon. If you are their unfortunate victim, they will target you and carry out their wicked intent without any feelings or concern about how damaging their behavior is to you. In fact, they feel pleased and happy with themselves that they can make another person suffer.
Insane/evil persons refuse to accept responsibility for their hurtful actions. Taking personal responsibility is not a part of their inherent moral code. They will always blame others for their own evil-doings and they never apologize. NEVER. If you have a person in your life who has never apologized for hurting you, you are dealing with an insanely wicked person. Be aware.
If these people cannot manipulate you, you will be considered an obstruction to their nefarious goals and you could possibly be in danger. They are master manipulators and will stop at nothing to complete their mission. They will suck you into their web of lies and deceit and use you as long as you are fulfilling a need in their self-serving plan. As soon as you have provided what they needed from you, they will discard you and disappear, estranging themselves and alienating those you love who are within their power to do so. They have no conception of the meaning of a real or loyal relationship, nor are they interested in such. It is “all about them”, a power and control dynamic.
This kind of person exhibits a high-degree of narcissistic traits, perhaps even full-blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder, or a combination of both. They are true arrogant control freaks which results from the “high” they obtain by having unrelenting control over others and subjugating them to a life of fear, anxiety, depression, and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, thereby feeding their insatiable need to be powerful and dominant. Making others feel unimportant, unloved, and inferior to them feeds their false sense of superiority and gives them feelings of pathological pleasure.
They lead double lives. Insane/evil people are one way with some and another way with others. Their abuse is usually done outside the earshot and view of others. They are especially abusive to children and the elderly behind the closed doors of the family/home environment. This is why the first tactic the insanely evil person employs is isolation of their victims from friends and family members who could help them.
These insane/evil persons are not to be toyed with and the lay person should never try to engage them by pointing out what they are doing. You could virtually put yourself in grave danger by attempting this. Since it is very difficult to catch these people in their abusive behavior, the best you can do is wait it out until you have something concrete you can report to law enforcement, THEN DO IT! Unfortunately, most Child & Elder Protective Service Agencies in the United States do not recognize this kind of insane/evil behavior as abuse, and it is unreportable as such.
SAGA-Society Against Grandparent Alienation© is working diligently to change this by exposing abusive Grandparent Alienators who are also abusing our grandchildren through the psychological abuse of coercive control. We are educating the general public about the epidemic of Grandparent Alienation abuse and reaching out to the lawmakers, clergy, medical, psychological, child & elder protective agencies, and business leaders in our communities, asking them to get involved in our efforts to stamp out and obliterate this scourge on the family in 21st Century society.
We invite all who will help us fight to join in and be a part of this great wave across the globe to bring awareness and education.
© 2017 SAGA-Society Against Grandparent Alienation
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ABOUT US
S.A.G.A. STATEMENT OF PURPOSE
SAGA - SOCIETY AGAINST GRANDPARENT ALIENATION
This website provides to the general public verified and well-accepted information from the psychological, faith, and medical communities about the dynamics of familial alienation and the alienators, as well as information and insight from the personal experiences of loving and fit Alienated Grandparents.
This website exists to bring awareness to the societal ill of Grandparent Alienation and to help others going through this devastating travesty to understand the dynamics of alienators who have robbed us of our adult children and grandchildren.
From the information provided herein, it is clear that persons who use their own innocent children to exact revenge, pain, and punishment upon those they perceive as their personal enemies, are mentally unbalanced persons in need of mental health care or even criminal prosecution and are persons who have come to care not that they are destroying lives exponentially. We prove that children are not exempt from their list of persons to be used as cruel tools in their quest for absolute power, revenge, and control against grandparents.
This is an educational/informational website. We provide the clear, concise, and irrefutable evidence and information that exposes the nature and dynamics of these child and elder abusers.
Unless we educate the public about the abnormal and aberrant practices of alienators, nothing will ever change. Exposing evil is never pretty and those who expose it could be called angry, divisive, hate-filled, and unforgiving by those who knowingly and unknowingly enable these abusers. Anyone who makes these kinds of judgments about those who are sounding the clarion call to action against this abuse is an enabler themselves. If it wasn't necessary, this website would not exist.
We dislike the term 'Grandparent Rights'. We believe the use of this term is a sure way to incite any parent already guilty of grandparent alienation to exacerbate their alienating behaviors. Until the travesty of Grandparent Alienation is fully addressed in society for what it is, severe child AND elder abuse, we cannot bring about the change that is needed. We don't believe we can legislate morality in alienators. We don't believe we can pass enough laws or even stringent enough laws to obliterate this blight on society. Alienators have proven that they will just circumvent by building a better mousetrap.
Children have basic human rights to know and love their safe, loving grandparents and extended family. Their rights are what are being trampled upon by the very ones who are supposed to be as GOD himself to them, loving them, nurturing them, socializing them, educating them---their own parents/caretakers.
Societal exposure and rejection of alienation and abusive alienators must begin in full force much the same way that child abusers, child molesters, and drunk drivers are treated in society. We must stop being timid about telling our own unique stories and begin exposing how these alienators have harmed us and our grandchildren. This harm is perpetrated against children and elders by mentally unbalanced persons.
We stand up for the most vulnerable and most wounded in this tragedy, our minor grandchildren and the elderly.
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